Fantasyland

Last weekend we went on a two-hour-date to MidValley.

Eh bukan tetiap minggu kita pergi date ke?

Sebenarnya ayat pertama di atas nak cakap masa kat MidValley, to be exact Harvey Norman ni we saw my favourite fantasyland... I even told him `nanti kita buat rumah camni ek'. Hahah layankan jelah dia ni kan (mungkin ini kata2 dia di dalam hati melihat I over excited, siap keluar kamera amik gambar)

Sebenarnya juga ayat kedua nak cakap kami gi date every week sebab..sebab..sebab...sebab kami tak pernah gi date sebelum kahwin. Haha nak cakap poyo pun boleh(atau, perlukan I gitau pembaca blog ini tapi takpe,setakat seploh kerat pembaca tegar takpe kot) tapi anda suka tak cerita Adamaya TV3 setiap petang weekdays la ni? Sweet kan bercinta pas kawin... kalau sapa cakap tak sweet I taktau laa nak cakap apa.Sebab kawan I si Oura suka sangat cerita ni.OK tu je, motifnya janganlah bercinta sebelum kawin lama sangat, sebab bercinta lepas kahwin lebih best.Selain mengelakkan tak best berdua-duaan dan risikonya yang tinggi, sesungguhnya lepas kahwin lebih sweet kalau anda baru nak kenal true colours pasangan anda.Sekian.

p/s: Amacam,ada mesej tak posting ni walaupun merapu? Ahah layankan je.

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Betul, sesiapapun lebih cantik memakai tudung!

Ayat di atas telah lama saya ingin ungkapkan secara terbuka.Ingin ditujukan kepada sahabat,rakan-rakan,saudara mara,kaum keluarga,jiran tetangga mahupun strangers yang hanya dikenali dari facebook, blog dan alam maya. Sayang apabila melihat wanita berpakaian sopan,lemah lembut tingkah lakunya tetapi ada sedikit kekurangan dari segi menutup aurat..

Ye,pakai tudung tak susah.Malah sekarang dah jadi trend..kadangkala orang pakai tudung ke pejabat dan majlis-majlis keramaian sahaja sebab kiraanya mudah, pakai tudung ni lebih sopan dan ayu.Lebih lagi, tudung ni dapat padankan baju kurung dan kebaya dengan lebih cantik.Betul tak? Contohnya kebaya putih dan kain batik, kan lebih cantik tudung dipadankan dengan warna paling menyerlah pada kain batik tersebut? Tak perlu pereka fesyen, sesiapa saja pun akan setuju dengan saya.

Tapi kena berhati-hati juga,pakai tudung ni dah jadi fesyen.Macam-macam jenis ada… Cuma kita perlu memilih yang terbaik dan melengkapi syariah. Kalau jarang atau tidak menutup dada, masih ada kekurangan di situ… Maka sama-samalah kita baiki penampilan kita. Ramai juga yang menyatakan akan pakai tudung suatu hari nanti.. macam pernah dengar dari artis2 di tv kan? Betul, niat sudah murni tapi bagaimana kalau kita tak berjaya tiba ke suatu hari tersebut? Takutnya.

Sebenarnya falsafah yang saya rasa relevan mengenai pemakaian tudung yang sempurna ni, selain menjadikan wanita itu lebih cantik,ayu, high respected dan segala-gala yang positif (ada ke orang komen wanita bertudung ni negatif? Setakat ni tak pernah dengar lagi..), adalah berkait rapat dengan taqwa. Kita memakai tudung untuk menutup aurat, seperti yang disuruhnya, adalah sebab kita takutkan Allah. Takut dengan azabnya. Juga pada masa yang sama mensyukuri nikmah yang Allah bagi.Takkan apabila mengakui syukur dengan nikmatnya,pada masa yang sama kita mengingkari perintahNya? Memang tak logik kan.

Teringat pengalaman masa menghadiri training,di mana kita diminta menilai orang pada pandangan pertama (first impression).Rasanya lebih sekali saya mendengar komen (kalau bukan ditujukan kepada saya pun,kepada orang-orang lain),`Suka la tengok akak ni.Pakaian sopan,tudung cantik semua..suka sangat'.Sekali lagi, ada ke orang yang tak suka tengok wanita bertudung sempurna dan menutup aurat.Lelaki pun suka dan akan respect wanita begini.

OK tu je.Memang jarang saya menulis topik macam ni tapi kuat terasa nak menulis kali ini. Sebab hidayah Allah itu akan sampai ke hati-hati yang dipilihnya..mungkin secara bloghopping,browsing, facebooking, facebook hopping… we never know.Semoga hati-hati kita menjadi pilihan Hidayah-Nya insya Allah.

The Blind Side

I love it when FT wrote a review on The Blind Side in his blog. I was thinking of doing one myself but eventually forgotten since I watched it months ago. Initially the film was suggested by my hubby since it is a true story about an American Football star (OK did you get it? American Football and rugby kan macam adik beradik sikit. Satu boleh baling bola ke depan, satu boleh baling sisi je.Kalau salah tolong tunjukkan.huhu). But the main attraction for me is more towards the lead actress- Sandra Bullock. Well she is my favourite actress so far..I guess since Miss Congeniality.

Kalau nak detail boleh baca review FT. But for me, I love this film since it portrays the theme -`unconditional love'. It shows how a white-middle-class family adopted a black stranger from the street,in the middle of the night, back to their huge, cozy home. Apparently, the mother, Leigh Anne Touhy (Sandra Bullock) found that the big black stranger, Michael Oher/Big Mike is her children's schoolmate. And the journey of how seemingly hopeless, slow-academic-learner like Mike became a successful football player was amazing. Just because a few strangers( not even his own real family) have faith in him and found the best side of him-his high defensive ability. This rare ability is later exploited that turned Big Mike into one of the best football player so far.

Likewise, Leigh Anne too learnt a lot during Big Mike's presence in her house. Although her family seems perfect-wealthy, classy, even her children have good manners despite being spoilt in a rich family. Minor things being highlighted by Mike's body language such when he brought his plate silently and sit at the dining table while the rest of the family ate while watching their favourite tv program. It resulted for Leigh Anne to force her husband and children to dine together at the dining table instead J Sounds familiar? I believe this exact scenario happens in our own family, more often than not.

Conclusion- go watch this movie. Sadly it was not premiered in Malaysia, I don't know why. Eventually it makes me wonder, why our local movies always focused on commercial rather than humane aspects with positive messages underneath. Well, sci-fi and comedy movies can always have some humanely aspects, no?  I think we've got enough car and motor racing, hantu, samseng, call girls, cerita lovey-dovey jumpa awek masa tunggu bas or kat pasar,cinta dua darjat etcetera. It is time for real film that makes people stop and think, and appreciate life, love and human being even more.

P/S:I also believe this movie is more watched by others after Sandra Bullock got her best actress  Oscar award recently. No doubt one of the best movie I've watched so far (Kakak, please include this in your DVD list,thanks.haha)

38.8 degC

This, is the first time I..

-had a really high fever (usually dalam 37degC je or less)
-had fever immediately after woke up in the morning without the usual symptoms (cough,sore throat,etc)
-had immediate two days MC from a clinic known as kedekut MC
-had sick leave two weeks in a row (last week ada MC gak)
-suspected dengue but confirmed negative after a blood test
-had a blood test just because of fever(!)

while just last year I boasted off my almost no MC record (okeh,I MC sehari je tahun lepas).Sebab tu orang tua kata jangan berlagak, kan dah kena..huhu -_-

some people might say alah fever je pon, apalah big deal sangat.Tapi I really hate going to doctors.. I hate taking medicine and injections. My husband pun dah tau habit I setiap kali jumpe doktor (rahsia haha).. so this is quite something for me.Nak-nak with the second outbreak of H1N1 now adays. So ladies and gents, please take good care of yourself.