Indah

Saya enggan menjadi tamak dan menyimpan kata-kata indah ini seorang, maka saya berkongsi keindahannya dengan anda. Terutama untuk kesayangan saya.

 

(Dipetik dari blog FT)

 

Anak muda yang dikasihi, pasanganmu adalah seseorang yang telah menghubungkan hati, jasmani dan nasibnya. Dengan sepenuh hati, saya mengucapkan tahniah kepada anak-anak yang saya kasihi sekalian. Saya berpesan, hendaklah kamu mencurahkan kasih sayang kepada pasanganmu. Setialah dengan mereka dan selaraskan dirimu dalam urusan satu sama lain.

Hindarilah kerumitan hidup bersama, dengan mengabaikan kekusutan kecil dan tidak penting. Semoga Tuhan menganugerahkan padamu kesejahteraan, kegembiraan dan ketinggian rohani. Moga dikurniakan kepadamu tumpuan kehidupan; yakni anak-anak tercinta yang sihat, soleh serta menjadi penyinar." - Ayatullah al Uzma Ali Khamenei.

Kebahagiaan yang sedemikian rupa tidak akan wujud kecuali di bawah naungan takwa kepada Allah dan mencintai Allah di waktu terang-terangan dan rahsia di waktu ghaib dan waktu syahadah. Lantaran itu tenteramlah jiwa suami dan ia berpuas hati kepada isterinya dan yakinlah ia bahawa isterinya hanyalah untuk dirinya sendiri sahaja, yang memelihara diri walaupun beberapa lama ia terpisah dari isterinya. Demikian juga sikap isterinya terhadap suami dibaluti dengan sepenuh kepercayaan itu. Di dalam suasana bahagia yang demikian, syaitan dari bangsa jin dan manusia tidak mempunyai jalan untuk mengganggu dan menggoda keduanya. - Al-Marhum Ustaz Mustafa Masyhur, Mursyidul Am kelima Jamaah Ikhwan Muslimin .

 

P/S : Jom lihat Ghadir! Cambahkan ilmu dan minda anda. 1-4 Julai, Muzium Telekom. Terima kasih Hazel atas ajakan.

Sports betting

*gambar hiasan

 

It is funny when some Muslims criticising another Muslim's view to ban sports betting.

All this makes some of the non-Muslims confuse and start to play along.

A Muslim minister is the one who made the first move to legalise sports betting.

One minister made an open remarks (and today a lengthy expelaination in a free newspaper) that makes most of us say, `wah beraninya.tak takut kena panah petir ke?'

Another minister is overly confident that he can regulate the sports betting issue to make sure the Muslims do not take part in it.

Bottomline is, getting the millions worth of bet by legalising the betting is the most important thing to do right now for the sake of developing our country. Or is it?

 

I am just afraid that the Almighty will punish us all for the wrongdoings of some.

 

Summer trip

I just came back after a week off of hectic working life. Seminggu cuti, dah apply sejak 3 bulan lalu tau. Suddenly when the time comes, it coincided with a lot of things but yes, something needs to be chosen right. However I still managed to keep track on the fate of Mavi Marmara and Rachel Corrie, and just in time to get the gist of Muktamar PAS and issues in between. Seems like I didn't actually lost contact of the general news, eventhough my non 3G Blackberry avoids communication for approximately 4 days.

Let me share some facts and do try your luck by guessing the destination right.

1.This is the country with 35,000 Muslims out of 12 million people in the capital city, hence is considered minority. Halal food is so hard to find, let alone Malay food. Most of the people are not aware of Muslims and our obligations.They tried asking questions about Muslims to their pop stars and they don't have a clue about us. Surau is also hard to find, hence once we prayed on a small bench in a park, another time was in an empty theatrette.

2.Similar to my experience in Venice, I went to a small island featured in a popular soap opera where the scenery portrayed in the drama was very spectacular. But when I reached there, it seems very normal.. hmm don't get me wrong, it was quite nice. Maybe I had too high expectation, or maybe we went at the wrong season. We had fun taking pictures, though.

3.Funny to note that in all three hotels that we stayed in ( yes, we moved into different hotels everyday), none of it has proper vanity kit that we used to find in hotel room at home. Luckily I brought my shower gel, toothpaste, shampoo and etc. One of it did not even provide bath towels!! One funnier fact, ALL bathrooms DO NOT have lock at the doors! In contrast to the above, the hotel in Vietnam (where we transit for a night) provides jacuzzi in all their rooms. Heaven.

4.The country has a newly built bridge with length of 21.3 km; that is almost twice the length of Penang bridge. Guess how they officiate it? They had a two-ways-marathon across the bridge. Cool!

5.When we landed at the airport, the familiar ambience of KLIA instantly appeared. Suddenly I remembered reading somewhere that KLIA did have `sisters' – airports with similar state-of-the-art facilities e.g. conveyer belts, walkways, immigration counters..even same fonts at their signboards!

7.Their currency is triple more than ours… so shopping spree is not really the thing to look for here. Let alone kami yang berbudget RM400 seorang sahaja huhu.OK kami kedekut. Eh bukan kedekut cuma takmau membazir..:p

8.I found myself in an intellect (?) argument of the correct ways in menentukan kiblat. Before this, I never bother to learn the right way since I consider my Dad as an expert navigator.Plus mu hubby got a cool watch with compass. But only then I realized not everyone (we travel in a group,alright)have the same understanding of reading the compass and determining the right arah kiblat. Weird right? So people, please learn hard and practice applying it since it is so important.

Still, overall I found this try is just ordinary. No, the destination is not to be blamed. Just that my husband was not well on the first day and also myself for the rest of the days.. I can't even eat proper meals! No, no little extension just yet.. :P It was bad until I skipped shopping sprees (now I convinced you that my health was bad, didn't I?) and found myself slept on my hubby's lap, on a bench when we were at an amusement park, dreaded for the time to move faster so we could proceed to the next destination. Still, I slept most of the time along the way, as I found that was the easiest (temporary) solution to my health problem. So imagine how bad it was. And due to our work commitments, perhaps we won't be able to have similar trips again in the near future…

Nevertheless, it was still a good moment as long as it was away from office. I found the office work is too dry and bored these days.. help! I want to change my work immediately. This is usually happen to people who hate routine and get bored easily like me. I know I need to do something new, daring and challenging to spice up the life. Any suggestion, anyone?

 

Below RM10

Yes, those are rugby theme, everyone.

Customized order, haha (thanks Pn Aishah!)

Since his condition is to give present below the budget of RM10, so one cupcake does worth less than RM10.

Penat gak la nak pikir camne nak fulfill the condition -_-

 

To kakak bijou, does it looks familiar? :P

 

To someone special who turned 26 last week;

 

Sorry I didn't managed to wish you on time  (I was asleep and I could not call you/text you anyway-takde line)

Tapi takpe you told me you went to bed quite early too so we were equal there

Sorry I didn't get you something fancy, just a humble bunch of cupcakes

I am planning to give you something more meaningful

And treat you for a fancy dinner

And hundreds of other thing that I want to do with you

But its just a birthday anyway, a day that we grow older

Lets treat each of our days together as equal meaningful as the special day that we missed.

 

p/s: to readers, kindly ignore the PDA (public dispay of affection).I'm sure it will not come often.Hehe 

 

Abah zaman sekarang

Last few weeks I teach my Abah on how to start blogging.

Dekat 45 minutes gak I bagi customer care service ( he called from his office to my office, on how to manage features in his blog).

Pastu the following week dia beli netbook dia sendiri (cewah) brand Dell tuh.

Lawa comel biru laut tapi i punyer si hitam tu tetap comel di hati(cis taknak kalah)

I gak jadi customer care line dia utk features netbook ape yg best and brand mouse ape best(sampai brand mouse pon dia tanya)

Tapi kawan2, netbook Dell dia tak bagi casing (sleeve) bersamanya padahal kalo brand lain ade je bagi sleeve skali.

So Abah beli netbook punya beg yang comel tak ingat. OK i jeles and rasa nak lobi suruh bagi I terus.  

Minggu lepas I ajar dia main Twitter plak.

I cakap senang nak follow kes anwar kat court and tau perkembangan PRK kat sibu.

And owh recently I just read his blog...hehee comell (bayangkan abah2 berbahasa skema dan menulis blog catatan harian.siyes cute)

Haha but I dont dare to encourage dia main facebook...

Tapi risau gak next week kalo balik rumah dia mintak I ajar bukak akaun fb pula.. aiya..

 

Nih la dia Abah2 zaman sekarang.Canggih betul.

 

-_-

 

p/s: tapi I secretly hope he wont found my blog..eventhough the address is quite obvious.abah if you reading this, peacE! kita kan peminat AKJ, kena la ada blog kan :P)

 

 

Jom tweet

I tweet more often these days.

And I just knew why people lite twitter so much.

It is cooler than just updating your fb status.

So lets follow each other (my link at side bar).

 

Tahajjud Cinta - a review

Tahajjud Cinta is the latest CD I bought recently.People who knew me close enough, would realised that this album must mean something deep. Because at only very few occurence that I bought a CD (or cassette in yesteryears), since usually I would not care much about songs and music. I just listened to whatever being played in the radio or if I love the songs I heard, I just find it in the net and replayed it. I remembered few months back, me and hubby always search for this album everytime we were in malls but failed to be found.We knew that it was released back in end of 2009. Kenapa ya? Does it only available at selected shops?

 

So what is so special with Tahajjud CInta?

If you need my one liner, I would say - the songs are very soothing.

 

So if you need something to unwind your emotions, or as a company in car during traffic jams, or just a plain daily listening - I guess this is a good alternative.It contained one of the nicest Asma' ul Husna recited ever, but my personal favourite is `Pintu RIndu' which is actually a famous marhabban melody being modified it lyric to give more meaning. Also, a few that are already familiar to our ears are `Tahajjud CInta' (soundtrack from the drama Alif Firdaus) and `Ku Percaya Ada Cinta'. Others are nice too. Kesimpulannya I suka!

 

But...if you already has the negative perception of not liking the singer for whatever reason, then I have no right to bash out your initial perceptions. Although Siti has not cover her aurat properly, or is too perfect(beautiful,wealthy with even wealthier husband,luck is always at her side but yet still tak-pakai-tudung-walau-kata-nak-pakai-pas-balik-haji) that made points of disgust to some others, but at least with this album she will have a fair share of pahala that maybe we did not have. Perhaps by listening to these songs will open the heart of someone to repent..even if it is only one person at the other side of the world.Who knows? I see this as an advantage by being a public figure that normal people are not given the opportunity to spread dakwah as they are.

 

As the conclusion, go get the CDs. Or at least search in youtube to get the feel of what I mean. But of course everyone has their own preference, and I have mine. Just pray that the songs will touch hearts of people to change for the better (especially the singer! ameen).

 

Enjoy :)

I support this! Don't you?

Support jangan tak support :)

Fantasyland

Last weekend we went on a two-hour-date to MidValley.

Eh bukan tetiap minggu kita pergi date ke?

Sebenarnya ayat pertama di atas nak cakap masa kat MidValley, to be exact Harvey Norman ni we saw my favourite fantasyland... I even told him `nanti kita buat rumah camni ek'. Hahah layankan jelah dia ni kan (mungkin ini kata2 dia di dalam hati melihat I over excited, siap keluar kamera amik gambar)

Sebenarnya juga ayat kedua nak cakap kami gi date every week sebab..sebab..sebab...sebab kami tak pernah gi date sebelum kahwin. Haha nak cakap poyo pun boleh(atau, perlukan I gitau pembaca blog ini tapi takpe,setakat seploh kerat pembaca tegar takpe kot) tapi anda suka tak cerita Adamaya TV3 setiap petang weekdays la ni? Sweet kan bercinta pas kawin... kalau sapa cakap tak sweet I taktau laa nak cakap apa.Sebab kawan I si Oura suka sangat cerita ni.OK tu je, motifnya janganlah bercinta sebelum kawin lama sangat, sebab bercinta lepas kahwin lebih best.Selain mengelakkan tak best berdua-duaan dan risikonya yang tinggi, sesungguhnya lepas kahwin lebih sweet kalau anda baru nak kenal true colours pasangan anda.Sekian.

p/s: Amacam,ada mesej tak posting ni walaupun merapu? Ahah layankan je.

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Betul, sesiapapun lebih cantik memakai tudung!

Ayat di atas telah lama saya ingin ungkapkan secara terbuka.Ingin ditujukan kepada sahabat,rakan-rakan,saudara mara,kaum keluarga,jiran tetangga mahupun strangers yang hanya dikenali dari facebook, blog dan alam maya. Sayang apabila melihat wanita berpakaian sopan,lemah lembut tingkah lakunya tetapi ada sedikit kekurangan dari segi menutup aurat..

Ye,pakai tudung tak susah.Malah sekarang dah jadi trend..kadangkala orang pakai tudung ke pejabat dan majlis-majlis keramaian sahaja sebab kiraanya mudah, pakai tudung ni lebih sopan dan ayu.Lebih lagi, tudung ni dapat padankan baju kurung dan kebaya dengan lebih cantik.Betul tak? Contohnya kebaya putih dan kain batik, kan lebih cantik tudung dipadankan dengan warna paling menyerlah pada kain batik tersebut? Tak perlu pereka fesyen, sesiapa saja pun akan setuju dengan saya.

Tapi kena berhati-hati juga,pakai tudung ni dah jadi fesyen.Macam-macam jenis ada… Cuma kita perlu memilih yang terbaik dan melengkapi syariah. Kalau jarang atau tidak menutup dada, masih ada kekurangan di situ… Maka sama-samalah kita baiki penampilan kita. Ramai juga yang menyatakan akan pakai tudung suatu hari nanti.. macam pernah dengar dari artis2 di tv kan? Betul, niat sudah murni tapi bagaimana kalau kita tak berjaya tiba ke suatu hari tersebut? Takutnya.

Sebenarnya falsafah yang saya rasa relevan mengenai pemakaian tudung yang sempurna ni, selain menjadikan wanita itu lebih cantik,ayu, high respected dan segala-gala yang positif (ada ke orang komen wanita bertudung ni negatif? Setakat ni tak pernah dengar lagi..), adalah berkait rapat dengan taqwa. Kita memakai tudung untuk menutup aurat, seperti yang disuruhnya, adalah sebab kita takutkan Allah. Takut dengan azabnya. Juga pada masa yang sama mensyukuri nikmah yang Allah bagi.Takkan apabila mengakui syukur dengan nikmatnya,pada masa yang sama kita mengingkari perintahNya? Memang tak logik kan.

Teringat pengalaman masa menghadiri training,di mana kita diminta menilai orang pada pandangan pertama (first impression).Rasanya lebih sekali saya mendengar komen (kalau bukan ditujukan kepada saya pun,kepada orang-orang lain),`Suka la tengok akak ni.Pakaian sopan,tudung cantik semua..suka sangat'.Sekali lagi, ada ke orang yang tak suka tengok wanita bertudung sempurna dan menutup aurat.Lelaki pun suka dan akan respect wanita begini.

OK tu je.Memang jarang saya menulis topik macam ni tapi kuat terasa nak menulis kali ini. Sebab hidayah Allah itu akan sampai ke hati-hati yang dipilihnya..mungkin secara bloghopping,browsing, facebooking, facebook hopping… we never know.Semoga hati-hati kita menjadi pilihan Hidayah-Nya insya Allah.

The Blind Side

I love it when FT wrote a review on The Blind Side in his blog. I was thinking of doing one myself but eventually forgotten since I watched it months ago. Initially the film was suggested by my hubby since it is a true story about an American Football star (OK did you get it? American Football and rugby kan macam adik beradik sikit. Satu boleh baling bola ke depan, satu boleh baling sisi je.Kalau salah tolong tunjukkan.huhu). But the main attraction for me is more towards the lead actress- Sandra Bullock. Well she is my favourite actress so far..I guess since Miss Congeniality.

Kalau nak detail boleh baca review FT. But for me, I love this film since it portrays the theme -`unconditional love'. It shows how a white-middle-class family adopted a black stranger from the street,in the middle of the night, back to their huge, cozy home. Apparently, the mother, Leigh Anne Touhy (Sandra Bullock) found that the big black stranger, Michael Oher/Big Mike is her children's schoolmate. And the journey of how seemingly hopeless, slow-academic-learner like Mike became a successful football player was amazing. Just because a few strangers( not even his own real family) have faith in him and found the best side of him-his high defensive ability. This rare ability is later exploited that turned Big Mike into one of the best football player so far.

Likewise, Leigh Anne too learnt a lot during Big Mike's presence in her house. Although her family seems perfect-wealthy, classy, even her children have good manners despite being spoilt in a rich family. Minor things being highlighted by Mike's body language such when he brought his plate silently and sit at the dining table while the rest of the family ate while watching their favourite tv program. It resulted for Leigh Anne to force her husband and children to dine together at the dining table instead J Sounds familiar? I believe this exact scenario happens in our own family, more often than not.

Conclusion- go watch this movie. Sadly it was not premiered in Malaysia, I don't know why. Eventually it makes me wonder, why our local movies always focused on commercial rather than humane aspects with positive messages underneath. Well, sci-fi and comedy movies can always have some humanely aspects, no?  I think we've got enough car and motor racing, hantu, samseng, call girls, cerita lovey-dovey jumpa awek masa tunggu bas or kat pasar,cinta dua darjat etcetera. It is time for real film that makes people stop and think, and appreciate life, love and human being even more.

P/S:I also believe this movie is more watched by others after Sandra Bullock got her best actress  Oscar award recently. No doubt one of the best movie I've watched so far (Kakak, please include this in your DVD list,thanks.haha)

38.8 degC

This, is the first time I..

-had a really high fever (usually dalam 37degC je or less)
-had fever immediately after woke up in the morning without the usual symptoms (cough,sore throat,etc)
-had immediate two days MC from a clinic known as kedekut MC
-had sick leave two weeks in a row (last week ada MC gak)
-suspected dengue but confirmed negative after a blood test
-had a blood test just because of fever(!)

while just last year I boasted off my almost no MC record (okeh,I MC sehari je tahun lepas).Sebab tu orang tua kata jangan berlagak, kan dah kena..huhu -_-

some people might say alah fever je pon, apalah big deal sangat.Tapi I really hate going to doctors.. I hate taking medicine and injections. My husband pun dah tau habit I setiap kali jumpe doktor (rahsia haha).. so this is quite something for me.Nak-nak with the second outbreak of H1N1 now adays. So ladies and gents, please take good care of yourself.

My weekend and his

My weekend was filled with the above.Oh no the picture don't do justice, I was actually away for a camping trip.But the jeram was superb!Guess where?Hint:only half and hour from KL

While his weekend was incomparable.While I was worried he would be bored to death (kononnye without me kan), his weekend was full with meeting-wedding-rugby-balik kampung(ciss sempat !both places pulak tu)-futsal-bowling..pergh.At least I'm glad he was having equal fun.

What a busy-outdoor-lovers-couple we are...-_-

On-screen vs hardcopy?

Have you ever wonder, why some people just favour real paper books instead of e-books?

Among these people are yours truly. I can't stand e-books or lengthy wordy documents on-screen. I printed all notes during my study days and even have to take occasion breaks from looking at the monitor in my daily work (sebab tu I suka kerja luar every now and then, I can't stand the monitor lights!)

Also, ever wonder why when we typed an important document, it looked flawless and perfect. But when we printed it out and submitted to the boss, she sent it back a moment later with red correction lines and made us gape in disbelief - Why didn't I notice this typo errors during my hundred times of re-checking??

I just found the answers during my writing skills training last week.

My trainer told me; when we glare at the monitor, the light emitted goes straight to our eyes. This is called backlit image. When we read a hardcopy, the nearest lamp reflected its light to the hardcopy and then to our eyes. It is called reflected image. Generally our brain unable to focus details of backlit images compared to reflected images, hence we just realize the errors after a hardcopy proofread. At least the DailyWriting Tips agreed that hardcopy is more steadfast when it comes to proofreading and editing. Of course some lucky people might be able to write remarkable error-free piece of documents on-screen, so consider your ability as a blessing and be grateful about it J

Generally, it is still ok (for those who can bear) to use backlit image for reading or drafting purpose, but please don't proofread/edit important documents on-screen as you can't afford to spot every single mistakes. Unless if it is just a five liners or informal email (well, we have to help save a tree, don't we?) Please be extra cautious because sometimes simple mistakes may lead to misinterpretation or even worse, potential embarrassment. Some may also cost our future and fortune! ( I've known some real life examples, seriously).

So Ci especially, you are recommended to proofread your final thesis using hardcopy ye J

p/s: I don't do hardcopy proofread for my blog posts. It is just way unnecessary. Please save a tree, thanks.

Last week's Fortunate/Unfortunate events

 

(lama dah I tak buat post karangan. So sesiapa merindui karangan I, here it goes)

My series of unfortunate events occurred last week. Not too many events though but enough to make me took EL on Friday. OK actually only two major events but I intentionally put some spices so it sounded terrible. Oh sangat jujurkan. But those were bad though.

Well, the first was when my car failed to start after I finished my training in Bangi. I usually had my Asar prayer before I went home, so the parking area was quite deserted with only few people passed by. Hence I walked to the guardhouse and asked them for a mechanic's number(actually I would welcome their help tapi cover line la gak). But what I did not expect was their reluctance to help. At first, they suggested for me to walk alone to the junction, said that a workshop is just around the corner. Since I was sad and panicking, I don't dare to walk alone and insisted for the workshop's phone number instead. I can't believe they don't have a number, as they were guards in a training centre where similar events could and would occur every now and then. Amidst their reluctancy, one of them agreed to see my car's condition. Or maybe they felt guilty for the small tears welled in my eyes (sikit je ok. Biasalah panik). Pakcik tersebut shot a glance at my engine and said, `oh takboleh start ye. Nanti saya carikan jumper'.

And I waited for few minutes and he didn't return. At the same time, my dear husband's friend's friend (ye husband I tolong carikan talian hayat bila dengar wife dia bunyi cam nak nangis dah over the phone sebab kereta takleh start.Anyway tak nangis pon ok.Ego still kena maintain.Haha) came over with jumper wires. At the back of my head,  I was so sure that the cause was not the battery.I just changed it a few months ago, so it is considered brand-new right? So before they started energizing my battery, I asked them to inspect the wiring first. And boy I was right (but not brave enough to look myself, typical woman), the wire did not touch the battery cap. So the kind hearted guys helped to tighten it up and asked me to pour hot water later to ensure the elements keep in contact. I happily thanked them and hopped off to fetch my husband in the office. The best/worst part is, the guard never return. Sabar je lah. Sila blacklist pakcik guard tersebut ok.

Kesimpulan part one:

1)My husband bought me jumper wires to be kept in my car. He insisted it will be very important whenever I face similar situation in the future. But I still think the most important thing to have instead of jumper wires are AAM toll free or a mechanic's number. Haha.Lady drivers semua mesti sependapat dengan I.Kan?

2)Bukan semua pakcik guard adalah helpful sanggup menolong wanita yang dalam kesusahan.

OK habis part one.

My second unfortunate event started the very next day. Both husband and I went back early from office, happily (sebab jalan tak jem, cuti sekolah). I even planned to cook a simple dinner that night. When we approached the lift to our house, the security guard (eh apa asik citer pasal pakgad ni?aish dejavu plak) told us the TNB guys had pulled out our meters.What?? I almost shout to the guard in anger (spontaneously, I got a short temper anyway) but suddenly realized it was not his fault. And I noticed hubby was extremely calm hence I gained back my self control and tak jadi marah.Padahal pak gad tu baik nak inform apasal aku marah dia plak.

When we reached home, of course all electrical appliances were not functioning. We called TNB aduan line and got false promise to return our call after a short while (Mengapakah perkara ini selalu terjadi?Baik takyah jadi operator Aduan line). Only the second call answered our messy encounter. The previous owner closed his account without informing us. This time I almost sure my husband will turn into Incredible Hulk out of anger (Saye pon kena marah sekali..uu sedey) because all this won't happen if the previous owner make JUST one phone call to inform us. But when Allah says it will happen, it still will. Alhamdulillah we were still very conscious of that.

To make things worse, we misplaced the SnP and husband was convinced it was left at his parents' house. So off we went, in the middle of the night balik Seremban. But the SnP was nowhere to be found. So the next day (after informed our bosses of our EL), we called our lawyer and obtained the amended SnP from her. Then, rushed back to KL to open our account before everyone leave for Friday prayer. Siap kena merayu-rayu pakcik meter to install our meter on the day since it was Friday and they don't work on weekends. Finally, our meter was installed the same day. Terima kasih kepada pakcik meter dan kuncu-kuncunya, you guys made a great effort to light up our house,literally! (eh jangan memain, one of our contingency plan is to sleep in the nearby hotel, tapi masalahnya hotel semua penuh di akhir cuti sekolah.Bagus gak,kalau tak kopak juga)

Kesimpulan part two:

1)      Please communicate; you won't know the impact of communication breakdown to other people until you experience it yourself. Sometimes the solution is just a phone call away.

2)      Never delay to change your electric account whenever you bought a house from someone.

Sekian.

But at least, my weekends were filled with joy of the others. I attended three weddings, and a rugby match. Haha congrats to all the newly weds. Only some minor glitch, I forgot to bring extra clothes so I was the awkward lady in white silk baju kurung di tepi padang tengok orang main rugby after attending my schoolmate's wedding. Haih sabar je lah..I don't mind the stares but baju kurung just restricted me to sit on the grass and enjoy the game wholeheartedly. Itu je.

Enjoy your days, everyone.

 

Pesta Buku tahun ni

Pesta Buku akan diadakan 19-28 Mac ni di tempat biasa, PWTC.

 

Sekali lagi saya bercita2 untuk pergi.

 

Mungkinkah saya akan gagal lagi kali ini??

Dream job

I know everyone has their dream job(s) that lingers in mind every now and then.Ironically, they are not often the job that you are having right now.

Right??

OR adakah most of you had your dream job and enjoying every moment of it?Then good for you.If you don't have it (where I believe most of us don't) then be grafetul too because at least we have a job.Or maybe who knows that the job is the best for you?

 

Well in my dreams, day and night, consciously or not, I do dream on several jobs that I wanted to do, e.g cikgu tadika (ni nak usahasama ngan kakak bijou la kononnya tapi takut dia busy gi offshore la pulak kan), dietitian, child specialist, cikgu bahasa, travel agent, enterpreneur and the list goes on. When I was a child I even think of becoming a penjaga zoo as it is such a noble work to do. Looking back at the list, they all are related with my interests: health,children,language,traveling,small business...siapa tak suka buat kerja yang kita suka kan.Even tak payah bayar gaji pun takpe kan?

 

But I never wanted to become the profession of which I qualified for.

Well, it might be exciting and high profile but, the heart is just not into it.

As simple as that.

 

Alah ramai je tak keje according to their qualification but more towards their passion.And they are happy. Even as a housewife. I mean, why not? Kan? As long as they are happy.

 

The thing is I don't really fancy people belittle others' profession or make double standard comments, e.g (ni example je tau), 'wah kerja ni lagi bagus dari kerja tu, wey kenapa berenti kerja, kan dah bagus kerja tu..' `jadi housewife ni lagi penat dari kerja pejabat tau..kau mane tau' and everything in between. You never know until you are in the person's shoes, so avoid judging without understanding in the first place.

 

OK tu je. I a not quite sure whether I intend this post mainly for myself or for others.Maybe both..

 

Haha.Rambles la ni maksudnya.Tiada kaitan antara hidup atau mati.

I need this

I wish I could have this trip again to clear the hassle of life and find the peace of mind.

Seriously, its not the place that we like most, but it is the villa!

 

Haha.

Tempted? :P

Daily prayer

 

 

Just thought of sharing with you guys.

Cliche question

Excuse the wedding pic, please.

Just realize I have not upload even a single photo of my own wedding in my own blog,so here is one...and please expect more to come.haha.

Its been a while but still I received the cliche question, of `how was married life?'

Usually I replied with even a cliche answer `Cam biasala..haha'(grinning ears to ears). Cause the best answer you would ever obtain is when you experience it yourself..ahaha.Cam bagus je jawapan kan.But its true..:P

Just now was another one of many occasions that makes me smile,the occasion that only occured when you have a husband living with you, of course.

When we just finished our prayers,he looked at me, smiled and touched my telekung.

I gave him a puzzled look, thus he said`nak retain air sembahyang..' (he was about to go for some religious programme shortly)

I replied, `okay' and I alas my hand with my telekung and salam as usual, pastu terus kedua-dua kami terkejut.

Sebab eventually I salam cium tangan cam biase, maka batal gak air sembahyang kan...haha so much on nak retain air sembahyang la kononnya kan..:P Sorry dear, tak sengaja :P Tapi fikir balik I gelak sorang-sorang sebab beriya alas tangan tapi cium tangan my husband. Ntah pape tah.